When you happy... keep silence, when u blush... be silent, When u angry... dnt speak,
and so on...
You know this is the biggest weapon with which u can fight, this whole silence speaks alot. When someone abuse u... reply with silence///
Oh god... u dnt know, it creates a whole differnt scenario, people keep on guessing, what's goin on in your mind. they keep changing their thought about u and ur nature.
And then all understanding goes ruin and then u keep loosing interst of the person in you.Then the person slowly goes out of ur life, without telling anything,in silence... but situaton changes a little, if the person is short tempered, he will show the anger and ask u about all these behaviour. u again go on ur silent mode and dont reply anything... thats all, the person will burst on u and will go out of ur life....
And look, u won... hence battle is over... without saying a word, u won.
U can break any relationship, whatever be ur condition, how strong the bonding, this behavior is just like a sword.
Conclusion:
......so what do u think, what this behavoiur says all about , what i believe is u can not make out your relation being silent, silence kills.. kills harder..
but why do people keep silence in a relation... when no one wants to break a beautiful relaionship.. what makes people to be silent.. what situation make people to go on silent???
Differnt examples of silence:
1> When someone says, u listen,,, a good listener but dnt speak.Dont participate in disscussion, not active in planning. just appreciation,, whatever be,,, good or bad, dnt do criticisation.
2> In distance relation, u dont call, u dnt reply to msgs,dont be caring,ignore the things,put phone to silent mode. pick the call in "no-talking" condition.
3> No talking..only sharing smiles... only saying hello to each other...
and so on........
When u are unhappy with the person,, speak out. Be straight forward to the relation. Try to understand, silence hurt alot, because people expect answers from u. They need reaction from u on their behaviour.
So i suggest from silent people.. to open up.!!!
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